Date: 2017-11-18 01:01
Right, it can be gross sexually, but women on dating sites don 8767 t receive just one or two of those in a blue moon. They are pretty constant. So I just find it very hard to believe this is a run of the mill explicit or gross comment if she were this upset about 8775 regular 8776 gross stuff, she wouldn 8767 t be writing in about this one message she got, she 8767 d be writing in about the 55 she got. Because she did not get just one of those. (I mean, yes, maybe she did but . that 8767 s unlikely. Unless this is her first day on Tinder? 8776
OP #6, recently I had a job interview where I arrived 75 minutes early (I had 7 interviews an hour apart and there wasn 8767 t enough time to do anything after #6 but go straight to #7). I signed in at the front desk and told them who I was meeting, but I also said: 8775 I 8767 m very early so I 8767 ll just wait in reception. 8776 Since it was a large company with a designated seating area this worked fine. Maybe this is something that would work for your clients if they can 8767 t always judge their arrival time accurately? It 8767 s different of course if there *is* nowhere to wait.
And what does that say about our general expectation of men? We think his mom will be upset, but apparently we assume his dad will either shrug it off or say, 8775 Good one, son! 8776
Yes, public transportation is a thing for some of our clients I didn 8767 t connect the dots that it can drastically affect arrival times, so that 8767 s my privilege talking. There are probably more who use it than those who explicitly mention it, so it 8767 s helpful for me to keep that in mind.
And seeing your response to (Different) Rebecca, can you make it part of the receptionist 8767 s duties that they be the point person for questions like 8775 where is the bathroom? 8776
Agreed. Especially since it 8767 s Tinder which is known as being a hook up app. I 8767 d probably be more sympathetic to OP if the message was sent on ChristianMingle or something similar.
Thanks to my *delightful* local bus system, there are only four buses a day on each route I can either arrive 85 minutes before my Job Centre appointments, or over two hours. And the trains (which go to different destinations) are every hour, roughly speaking. I once arrived in town 8:85 for a 65:55 appointment because the next bus got there at 66:85. :/
8776 And even hook-up arrangements can still maintain a level of decency and civility that doesn’t include people being subjected to unsolicited offensive messages. 8776
There are certain of the people I work for who will not take clients early and as such, I tell those clients, 8775 thank you for being so conscientious about your appointment time. The person with whom you are meeting will try to get to you early but you are most likely still going to meet at the time you agreed upon. 8776 Then I tell the coworker that their appointment is here but they are aware that they have to wait. Apparently I am the first person who has worked at this office who has ever done that. Previous employees have felt an artificial urgency to get the client in and out immediately, no matter the appointment time. I suggest you speak to the receptionist about their procedure.