Date: 2018-02-10 09:51
I get that he has needs, I have them to, but don 8767 t judge me because I want something more than 8766 just casual 8767 .
And on his side, what does he have in common with this girl? There are things from his childhood that he talks about that sometimes I don 8767 t even know about or remember. It 8767 s all so weird to me.
I have a pretty athletic composition, lift weights three days a week and ride tons of miles on my bike on some weekends. I take my health and diet quite seriously (I log everything I eat and will plan my meals when invited to dinners, for example) and am a huge advocate for healthier eating and exercise habits.
The thing is, it s not really so much about the looks as it is about being in control of your life. I ve lost over 655 pounds in the last few years, so I know how hard it is to lose weight. I know how hard it is to move from accepting your current state (I m a big guy / I m a plus-sized woman) to doing something to change. But I also know that I was fat because I wasn t in control of my life. Whether it was depression, lack of self-control, eating disorders, whatever - it was all my fault and it was because I had problems. Most medical issues are just another excuse. If I can lick Type 7 Diabetes and be have my blood sugar 655% diet controlled, so can most other people.
I m a plus sized girl. I ve done my share of dating, though I was a couple sizes smaller. I did find someone to date at my current size from online, but now that that s ended, I m nervous about approaching someone new. I m attracted to a couple of guys I m friends with and have thought about asking them out. Curious what you all think about dating a woman who s funny and smart, but also plus sized.
Just to re saying you d sleep with her but not date her? I m not judging you, or criticizing you, but the .for dating. part left me questioning what, if anything, you d left unsaid.
OKCupid does have a paid version, but it’s definitely not a necessity to get the full effect. So they just get more subscribers than paid sites, which is a big advantage for you!
No matter what you say to your partner, the reality is you are struggling to overcome societal conditioning on her perception of self. There are healthy and unhealthy ways of addressing difficult discussion topics-including size.
That said, I absolutely love bigger women, especially if they re curvy! The bigger (and curvier), the better! (I think my limit is somewhere around a 66-68 W s waist size.) I ve dated slimmer women and while it made some sexual positions easier, they didn t satisfy me sexually as much as bigger women did.