Date: 2017-11-18 19:54
A chic at a party and suddenly she sees a hunk standing alone. She has set her eyes on him before. She feels a sense of instant affection. She abandons the party without getting to know his name or meeting him. And she does not bother about finding a way to contact him later. Two weeks after her sister is murdered.
On the family front, if you’re a single mom it may be best to avoid the subject of children in your first message (unless you’re only interested in bee-lining for the altar). After all, he can probably see this information on your profile and it might be a bit too much pressure.
9. Five rules for reeling them in.
Every man and woman has certain hard-wired behavior patterns.
Respect them and you’ll be in their arms. Violate them, and you’ll be
out the door. We spell them out for you.
The structure of the message is pretty simple. You connect with her on an interest of hers (ideally one that you have in common), and then you ask a question geared toward the topic at hand (skiing, hiking, reading, etc.).
“I think we all thought the ‘Hey, what’s up?’ would do really badly. It didn’t do quite as badly as we thought. But there were other openers that performed better,” said Karen Fein, vice president of marketing at Hinge. “The trend falls on the type of person they’re talking to. The more targeted to the specific person, the more contextual you can make it, the better it’ll be.”
But with our compelling opening lines, she’s reading every last word. And if you’re curious how examples like these might end, check out these 8 irresistible profile examples they will take your dating profile to the next level.
Once you’ve found an attractive woman you want to message, all you need to do is rapidly skim her profile to see if she has any common interests that you’re targeting with specific messages.
Here are some examples of messages you could sent to any women you find who are into skiing, wine tasting, or reading “nerdy” books:
Just how do you get a lady (or gentleman) to take a chance on you, anyway? You just need a little something to break the ice, if you know what I mean.
What if we told you the quickest and easiest way to get the responses you want doesn’t involve writing dozens of messages? In fact, it’s as easy as pressing three keys “control”, “C”, and “V”.
You're serious? There are women who would find that lines funny and flattering? I think these lines are pure stupid and not flattering at all. I would be offended if someone I barely know talked to me this way.