Date: 2017-11-17 06:20
Don't go for women who spend their profile speaking in the negative (as in bellyaching about what they don't want). There's nothing wrong with online dating. You people are just approaching the wrong types. The second anyone starts kvetching about what they're NOT looking for, I next that shit.
Sorry to break the news to people, but online dating is like playing at the casino. The odds are stacked against you. Sure it works for some, if you are counting cards or using any "tricks" but it doesn't work for the average person. The real problem is the system fails to do what we all want it to do!
- if you look misreable, guys will think you are.
7) See #6
8) Post a few photos, not just one.
- I want to see what you REALLY look like.
- Your photos should be CURRENT.
- Post one of your full body (not a sexy shot, but one that says "this is me, i'm not trying to hide")
- Post one of you doing something you love.
I think that online dating is "brutal" for both men and women, but for different reasons. Sadly for men, it is a fact that the VAST majority of online dating members on any site are men, so the odds are heavily stacked against men from the very start. For women, they get lots of messages, but pass over any that seem like nice guys and end up writing back to the losers. Women will choose "losers" over "nice guys" 99% of the time and it makes their online experience miserable.
Social anxiety for women? Oh, boo hoo. It 8767 s sooooo hard to stand there and just let yourself be talked to. Are you fucking kidding me? Try being a man and being insulted the moment you open your mouth, having people turn their back to you in mid sentence, point out your flaws or ask you stupid make-or-break questions just to see how quick and sharp you are and if you are even worthy of getting a non-fake number. Such a fucking joke. All you have to do is put on some eyeliner and not eat like a fucking pig so you stay under 685 lbs and for a good number of women, apparently that 8767 s even too much to ask for.
I don 8767 t follow the logic behind the statement that a significant number of fake profiles supports the claim of gender imbalance. I wouldn 8767 t argue that there is a gender imbalance. It wouldn 8767 t surprise me if reliable data ever proved it exists, because it would reflect how the genders tend to behave in offline. It would make sense to me if data reflected that their online behavior was somewhat similar. But I don 8767 t think the OLD industry has reliable data about anything, except maybe how much money they 8767 re making.
I think both men and women both have the raw end of the stick. But to say "women have it easier or men have it easier" is ridiculous. I think it's basically about finding a needle in haystack and that takes patience, and a lot of us (both men and women) don't have the patience. I certainly don't!
Charlie Sheen says that and he's now afflicted with HIV. There are benefits to monogamous. Many long term married couples are happy.
Thankfully, online dating now is less stigmatized than it used to be. I imagine, as everyone else, that this stigma will continue to disappear.
All you want is what most beta men want. Sex with random women without any commitment or responsible to that woman until YOU fall in love with her then she will be expected to commit to you only. Can you see how childish your expectations are? I mean what is the difference between your desires and most 65 year old males?