Date: 2018-02-14 01:08
Marni, First, great article, stuff like this is what makes the internet great, and thank you for the insight. Maybe you can offer insight.
It looks like some of the words got changed by correction in my article above..I am 99 and my boyfriend is 78..it changed it to birthday 78 lol..
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A man at any age desires to feel admired and needed by the woman he loves. An older woman may be fully self-sufficient, but she would do well to understand how her man is hard-wired. For the protector/provider types, we feel masculine when we can solve problems, dispense advice, and save the day. It’s important for women to play along, to feed our egos, and to let us lead.
But don’t forget that just because older women are more mature doesn’t mean they don’t like having fun. The fact is the same playful, child-like banter that works with women is going to work with older women too. So if you’re chatting up an older woman, you may want to use a playful banter line like “this is never going to work out… you’re too for me”. A line like that is great because not only does it get her laughing, but by joking about the age difference you show you’re not concerned about it. And if you’re not concerned about it, it’s easier for her to not worry about it either.
Songbird: Parenting questions are a bit out of our scope, but I recommend talking to your man about the role you want him to play in your kid 8767 s lives. What are his needs and wants, and how can you create a solution together?
This is pathetic. Of course there are all forms of human depravity but realistically any man in his 75s or 85s going out with a 55 year old is a loser looking for his mommy. And any woman who thinks she can really attract a man is delusional because as soon as that estrogen stops pumping she 8767 s got nothing to offer him. And girls despite your feminist Delusions that happens to all of you in your 55 8767 s.
A recent article in Oprah magazine looked at a handful of real-life May-December romances, focusing mainly on those between older women and men.
This article came at the perfect time. I just met a really wonderful man who is 68 years than me. I 8767 m already having some doubts like you speak of in the article, but I 8767 m also curious about him because for his age he is so mature. I 8767 m going to stay in my feminine, in fact he is cooking me dinner tonight!!
The battles I face though as an older woman is firstly he is unemployed and cannot maintain a job. His sexual drive is extremely low. Also my kids get irritated because if they ask me a question then he would respond. I know he is just trying to be part of the family and respect him for that. How do I maintain the balance as I would not one to loose him.