Date: 2018-02-05 20:45
Brilliant! Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple! I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice!
And yet, here I am, dispensing advice to womenfolk on being a better woman. Really? Like there 8767 s a shortage of actual women out there to tell you about this kinda thing? Well, there isn 8767 t. In fact, many of you, my readers, are plenty wise. One of the things I 8767 m really proud of is how incredibly smart and educated my readers are. Even if you ladies don 8767 t let on much, I see all the MAs, PhDs, MDs, CEOs, scientific papers written, books published, and operas sung.
Other details: Her income requirement for a partner: $655,555+ Her Height requirement for same: 6 8767 to 6 8767 9 8798 (she 8767 s 5 8767 5 8798 ) His Build: Athletic and toned. Her age requirement for a partner: 58 to 68. HER age: 75
Your profile is not a resume, nor a diary. It 8767 s a personal ad. An actual advertisement that speaks directly to the deepest wants and needs of your desired customer.
It really appears the mentality here is that as a woman who finds herself in this situation, it 8767 s damned if you do, damned if you don 8767 t. If you cut the guy loose because you don 8767 t want to be a source of pain, you 8767 re emasculating him by not allowing him to make his own choices. If you do keep him around, you 8767 re a heartless witch that 8767 s just using him. Sigh
Not only was that unintentional and if we re going to talk about invisibility (which we re not, because what matters to me or other women who might feel like I do is apparently quite irrelevant here) but there s absolutely no way I would have known that, would I have?
But, with potential hookups, I tend to prefer the breadcrumb approach, just doing enough to keep myself in their head as an option.
I have done (with the one guy I 8767 m still in touch with who 8767 s away for work the other, as you suggested, faded away) pretty much what you said above. I was just reflecting on it from the other angle based on some of the previous comments about how emasculating 8766 just friends 8767 is to a man. But I take your point that you can be fun & flirty without sexting. For the record, I 8767 ve never sent any dirty pics (that 8767 s sooo not me), it was more sexually explicit content. I 8767 ve also never been the one to start that, it has always been initiated by the man. It doesn 8767 t make me feel uncomfortable per se (I 8767 m human!), it 8767 s just that it 8767 s not a good long-term thing to do without in person contact in between.
I 8767 d agree with this, Fuzzilla. I never had terrible experiences with online dating, but the one guy who asked for my phone number immediately (who I never ended up going on a real date with) was weirdly demanding of my time and once even asked if he could come with me to my shrink 8767 s office (I had never met the dude), and got pissy when I said no. Weeeeirdness.
You said that, i didn 8767 t. I don 8767 t think that is what it makes you, i think it makes you a lot of other things, one of them being an emotionally weak, shallow person in constant need of assurance and external validation (i 8767 ll bet anything you 8767 re also a dog lover).