Date: 2018-01-07 18:32
I'm not blaming the man for having suspicions, Lord knows I'm paranoid in the same way when I fear rejection, but both subjects just spouted unfair gender stereotypes (the women have no time for decent men, the men are perverts by default if they're too old) which is a fair reflection of the two individuals' perceptions but not of the reality they both exist within.
Bubu, I'm not sure exactly what you mean. I have checked the site and nowhere does it say that it is not for married men it is not a dating site, so there is no moral issue involved. If you are asking why I am on this page, then the answer is easy: curiosity.. wondering whether other men had the same problems with dating sites that I did.
I hope this clears it up for you.
To me, after giving a lot of thought to this matter as a result of my own dating frustrations on Tinder, match , OK Cupid, and PoF.
I think the problem is a matter of choice. The ballooning of choice that internet dating has brought on now means we are no longer satisfied with our current options until our hands are forced.
I think in real world things take time so in the online dating world, both men and women want things to happen fast but the initial build up phase takes time on dating sites as well from what I know through http:// having been on several dates through it, so if only people can be a little more patient and try some more, especially with free sites around it does happen.
Online dating is not really much different from meeting people IRL it's just another method. Keeping that in mind, if you're the kind of person who gets attention offline, you'll most likely get it online. If you struggle socially offline, things won't magically change because you're online.
That's actually a really good point. If you don't like any of the incoming messages or guys who message you, why on Earth don't these women proactively seek out nice guys on these sites and message them first? I can believe most of the guys who proactively message girls first on these sites might be jerks or downright scary, but I highly doubt EVERY guy who exists on the site is such.
FEMALES may enjoy sex when having it, as much as males, however they do it for almost an entirely different reason.. to MATE.. and to BOND. Women want intimacy..MEN want sex !! The majority of males can have sex without needing intimacy. the majority of females cannot.
And that s exactly what I was doing. I had been a confident and outgoing man who enjoyed hanging out with my friends, spending hours chatting about absolutely nothing while smoking cigarettes and drinking countless cups of Waffle House Coffee. Now my social dealings involved helping online friends camp a rare monster spawn, or discussing class balance on my guild s chat channel.
Wow, makes me lol to hear women complain about OKC. Oh no, you had to sift through a bunch of messages from really gross people? Oh poor baby, the internet really just isn't for you, is it? That certainly is somehow equivocal to the disappointment a lot of men receive on these sites of getting no attention at all.. oh wait, those two aren't even remotely comparable. If you can't deal with ugly, sleazy, mediocre people, get the fuck off the internet!
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